How to Survive an Awkward Double Date

A double date is a double-edged sword. It could either be double the fun or double the awkwardness. Unfortunately, the latter is more likely. What if you and your date have zero sparks while the other pair is a few banters away from marriage? What if you suddenly find yourself preferring your buddy’s date? The number of dyahe scenarios is TDM (that’s “too darn many” for those from certain generations). What can you do to ensure your double date leads to a happy ending?

Whether you’re two fully formed couples or four singles looking to mingle, a double date can be enjoyable for everything with the proper planning and faultless etiquette. Here’s how.

Imagine being outfitted for paintball when your date is dressed to the nines. Any date, no matter how many couples are involved, requires forewarning. If you’re the designated planner, inform everyone of your intentions earlier. Better yet, ask for suggestions! This way, all parties can dress appropriately and be more relaxed.

When it comes to dating, a good, old-fashioned dinner date is still the best measure to get to know someone. Unlike movies, which discourage talking, or bowling, which might not be everyone's cup of tea, a yummy meal invites conversation in a conducive space. It's also a terrific chance for you to show off your impeccable manners.

Most double dates start with a joyful couple wanting to share their happiness with friends. Too often, the scenario involves three friends and that fourth possible buddy. No one can blame you for reminiscing about your shared past but better not forget the girl you’re trying to impress.

If you can’t help but talk about that embarrassing story from the past, include the odd person out. Give them context. Ask if something similar happened to them. Use this opportunity to get to know them better. Learn about their likes or dislikes, funny recollections, or quirky peeves.

Having an unofficial conversation moderator nips awkward silence in the bud and ensures your pal's girlfriend with the serious Main Character Syndrome won't monopolize the conversation. If you sense the discussions are a bit more one-sided, steer the conversation towards the silence. Again, see Tip No. 3.

Heavy topics like global warming and Charter Change are okay if you’re all old couple friends who can get over political differences. But if you’re meeting someone for the first time, you might want to avoid the ethics of cloning as a conversation starter, lest you start a heated debate before dinner even begins.

Any date, whether a double date or not, requires you to look your best. After all, seeing your scruffy hair, unclipped nails, and general lack of hygiene might turn her off. Proper grooming is a surefire way to make a good impression.

Make sure to shower beforehand with Clear Complete Soft Care Anti-Dandruff Shampoo. Its Liquifresh Gel Formula with Triple Anti-Dandruff Technology, vitamin B3, and amino acid clears flakes, soothes an itchy scalp, and leaves a fresh sakura scent. With regular use, it helps keep dandruff from coming back.

If you’re prone to oil and dirt buildup, wash your face with Dove Men+Care Body, Face & Hair Wash Clean Comfort. With MICROMOISTURE technology and a kick of menthol, it deeply cleans while leaving your skin nourished, cool, and refreshed with masculine herbal and marine notes.

If you’re pals with the other guy, arrange details beforehand. Talk about how you’re going to foot the bill. If he’s been with his girlfriend for a while, ask how they divvy up the costs. Do they go Dutch? Perhaps you can privately discuss it with him at some point during the date. In any case, always offer – but give your date the freedom to pay for herself, if she’s that type of girl.

If you and your girl are in a long-term relationship trying to play matchmaker to your single friends, keep your affection minimal during the double date. Not only is it respectful, but it also lessens the awkwardness – especially if the other couple only just met.

Whether on a first date, a blind date, or a double date, you can cut the discomfort by being polite and respectful. If all else fails, make the whole table laugh. That always works.